Author Archives: l.a. say

Is Self-hatred Holding Your Mind Hostage?

Self-hatred?  What does it really mean?  Who on earth would willing hate themselves? Self-hatred is sneaky.  It creeps up on you like a thief and robs you of all things positive.  It clouds your mind and steals your heart.  Before … Continue reading

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Learning to Relate to Others

This is a BIG issue!  Notice the picture chosen.  An adult using a bullhorn to shout at a young lady who is obviously not listening nor engaging in the conversation, even though it is exaggerated to show how loud the … Continue reading

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Learning Loyalty in Communication

Okay so you see the word loyalty what does that mean to you?  Webster defines the word loyal as, “unswerving  in allegiance” so what does that really mean?  One would say to stick to something no matter what.  How do … Continue reading

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Are You Constructive or Destructive?

Okay you know the type.  The person that ALWAYS seem to say they are giving you some, “constructive criticism”?  That is such an oxymoron.  It makes my skin crawl when I hear others using this expression.  Who in the name … Continue reading

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Frustration: The Leg that Success Stands On

We all can attest that we have had our share of frustrations but there is something amazing that can be born out of frustration if you allow it.  One word sums it up; success.  Let me rephrase that, if you … Continue reading

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